WHY CAN'T ONE BE JUST ENOUGH???

Sometimes I sit and I wonder, "why can't one be just enough". I know we have all been through some times in our lives when we feel we need multiple partners to satisfy our many different needs. We have the one who provides great sex, the one who is a great listener, the one who pay like he/she weighs, the one who gives great fellatio, the one that can cook us a good meal, the one who is the charmer and the romancer and there is always that one that is the fall dummy when the ones we really want are not available, you know, that good for nothing one but it beats a blank one!!!

I see and hear so many men, women, boys, girls talking about sex and head all the time. Wouldn't it be nice to get all you need from just that one special person? Some of you are probably reading this saying, "yeah right, that will never happen" but it can, it has and it will. Finding that special all around individual is like buying a house, you may get the big yard, big bedrooms, updated appliances but there will only be one bathroom that is very tiny. You find everything you want in that individual/home yet there will always be that one thing that is wrong. So you ask yourself what can I do to fix this, and you know that you will shed blood, sweat and tears to get that home right but little effort goes into getting that individual right. We all too often listen to that saying that goes, "you can't change a person" and maybe you can't but you can damn sure help them change themselves.

Work on that individual, put in the time, be patient. If they have all that you are looking for and just need some minor improvements it is more beneficial to work with them versus going out and getting a boyfriend/girlfriend #2,3,4. Trust and believe boyfriend/girlfriend #2,3,4 will have a boyfriend/girlfriend 5,6 and 7. That is just too much juice swapping for me, all because we can't find the time to work with the 1 we have. Compliment your partner, communicate with them, keep the fighting and arguing to a minimum or almost non existent, please them to the best of your ability and always remind them how important they are in your life.

I am not saying this will definitely ensure that your partner will not stray because there are some people who just can't phantom the thought of being with just one person so you can jump over the moon and back and they are still going to do them (if and when you run across this type of individual, run as fast as you can, no matter how hard you try, there is no fixing that type of individual) but being all that you can be in a relationship with just 1 person will increase your chances of longevity and a happy, healthy, disease free living. If your man/woman tells you they need more of you, they are not being selfish or clingy, they are letting you know that there is someone else out there ready, able and willing to provide it if you won't so that is one way we can ensure 1 will be enough by listening to our partners, putting our pride to the side and fulfilling their every need.

I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST OF LUCK IN LOVE AND LIFE AND REMEMBER DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WANT THEM TO DO UNTO YOU, SO IF YOUR PRIDE IS TO THE SKY AND YOU FEEL AS THOUGH YOU DON'T HAVE TO HUMBLE YOURSELF SOMETIMES, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE TREATED AS SUCH