EXCUSES ARE SUGAR COATED SET BACKS FROM REALITY AND PROSPERITY

Hello Bloggers...How many times have something happened to you or in your life and the first thing you did was make an excuse for it? Excuses make something so wrong seem relatively right, excuses makes our reality shiver to a dream or false hope, excuses hinder us from prospering because we are convinced we are okay right where we are, excuses allow us to be weak instead of facing our situation realistically and head on. I have made a many of excuses in my life and most of them were out of fear or laziness and I will be the first to say that all though they make me feel good at the moment, they don't get me anywhere in the end.

Whatever it is you want or need to do in life you have to look at your self and first of all be real with yourself. Ask yourself what is it I should be doing, what are the things in my life that are hindering me from getting to where I need to be, and what steps do I need to take to get there. If you want to lose weight and you look in the mirror and say to yourself, "I'm not fat, I am just thick"....YOU ARE USING AN EXCUSE...if you need to go back to school and get your high school diploma or GED and you say to your self, "well what's the use the economy is screwed up and people with college degrees can't even get a job" ...YOU ARE USING AN EXCUSE.....If you are in an abusive (mentally, spiritually or physically) relationship and you know you need to get out of it, yet you say to yourself "well I love him/her and when things are good they are great".....YOU ARE USING AN EXCUSE....

To that fat person who believes they are just thick, you might like the way your curves look and the compliments you receive but if deep down in your heart you know that you are fat and need to get rid of it, stop making excuses and do what you have to do because all you are doing is hindering yourself and jeopardizing your health. To that individual that needs to finish high school, the economy may be bad at this point of time but you have to live for today and prepare for the future. Going back to school will open up many more doors for you in the future but if you keep using excuses and doing absolutely nothing, you are going to find yourself in the same predicament 5 to 10 years from now. To that individual who is in that relationship and know the best thing to do would be to move on but can't stop using LOVE as an excuse, LOVE is a two way street and if it were coming and going in both directions, there would be no question as to ending the relationship. Of course there will be problems all relationships have problems but when those problems become the same problems continuously that means that nothing has been learned from the previous confrontation and since nothing is being learned then nothing will ever change so you have to stop using LOVE as an excuse and say to yourself it he/she loved me as much as I love them I wouldn't have to find an excuse because reality would tell me everything will be okay.

The bottom line is there are many things we need to do in life and we all know that life is not an easy road. Some people will make it look like life is all peaches and creams but trust and believe they put in a lot of hard work to get to that point and they didn't have a bunch of excuses along the way. Be real with yourself because at the end of the day you are the only one responsible for the success or failure you have in life. You may face obstacles along the way but again, it is YOU who has to learn how to hurdle over those obstacles and get back on track. When things look easy we are happy but when it is time to get down to the grind and struggle we freeze up and get scared. Many successful people today have been through far more struggles than many of us who are running from a struggle, yet they faced their obstacles, overcame their fears and most importantly THEY STOPPED MAKING EXCUSES and stepped up to the plate and promised themselves a change.

(PPDS) Prioritize, Promise, Deliver and Succeed....The only four words you need in your vocabulary to ensure you are on the right track to an excuse free and promising future. Do not allow the ignorance and comfort of an excuse hold you back from a beautiful, healthy, and rewarding future....You deserve better than that and the sooner you realize it the sooner you will leave the excuse at the but and finish off with an I AM, I CAN AND I WILL.....

Thank you all for listening and I hope I have sprinkled a little bit of inspiration and wisdom in the air and someone will benefit from it because that is my goal....LIVE OUT LOUD, DREAM BIG AND REACH FOR INFINITY....EXCUSES WILL QUIET THE LOUD IN YOUR LIVE, COMPACT YOUR DREAMS AND VISIONS AND IMPAIR YOUR REACH TO A MINUTE UNFINISHED GOAL...IF YOU CAN NOT BE REAL WITH ANYONE ELSE YOU MUST AND I EMPHASIZE MUST BE REAL WITH YOURSELF IN ORDER TO PROSPER IN THIS WORLD...PEACE LOVE AND BLESSINGS