Where There is a Good Man, There Will be a Good Woman

All too often we ask ourselves, "Why can't I find a GOOD man/woman". Well if we search deep within ourselves we will find that answer. I can tell you two very possible answers right up front and number one would be: You once had a good man/woman and did not know how to treat them because you were not sure what you wanted and/or what you had, number two: that good man/woman you are looking for is staring you right in your face but you may be too stuck on the "uh uh can't be" to even notice it.

Sometimes we have to step out of the box and go beyond our means and our comfort zone to get what it is we are really looking for in a man/woman. To a woman, men were always our heroes and our warriors. They were the providers, the protectors, the lover and the listener. Some where along the way most men forgot how to be those things. They felt a sense of "I am doing too much". Somewhere along the way men decided that a woman was not worth providing for, protecting or even listening to so man begin to treat woman like a disposable napkin and using her to satisfy his needs and tossing her in the waste basket when he picked up a new one. Some men didn't even toss the old one to get a new one, they would just have many of them at once. Somewhere along the way men stopped caring about the affect they were having on woman and when the woman realized what was going on, somewhere along the way women stopped looking to men to be their hero and their warrior. They were taught how to treat men like a disposable napkin and use him up and toss him to the side to get a new one. Women forgot the value of their worth and therefore they are unable to give their all to their man. I don't mean to sound biased but I am speaking from a woman's perspective and I know that not all men forgot how to treat a woman because those who did not forget, probably have a GOOD woman on their arm at this moment.

Ladies and Gentlemen take a moment and remember your worth, remember how to respect one another, remember how to love one another, remember how to communicate with one another. Treat your body like a prized possession and not just a prize waiting to be claimed by the next lucky winner. Once we remember how to treat, love and communicate again, we should have no problems finding a GOOD man/woman because they will give you the same respect you give them. MOST IMPORTANTLY LOVE YOURSELF FIRST BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T, THERE IS NO WAY ANYONE ELSE WILL BE ABLE TO BECAUSE YOU WON'T NO HOW TO ACCEPT IT....*PEACE, LOVE AND BLESSINGS*