ALL NEGATIVITY IS AN ILLUSION CREATED BY THE LIMITED MIND TO PROTECT AND DEFEND ITSELF

     During my many blessed years upon this earth, I have noticed that negativity is almost ALWAYS complimented. I often wonder if it is because it may be true, because it is amusing, if it is a diversion from one's own problems or if it just takes a lack of knowledge to engage in? I guess the reality of it is that we all have our own reasons for why we choose to entertain negativity. I have heard way too many people say that the straight and narrow is just too boring, and I believe that is because they are too lazy and non motivated to create their own straight and narrow experience. Straight and narrow does not mean PERFECT and HOLIER THAN THOUGH. It simply means directing your life and experiences towards a destination that will leave you free of all negativity, happy, peaceful, guided and setting an example for all to use as a guide to creating their own path. The twisted thing is that we all expect good things out of life but we are entertained by the not so good things. Some of us are happy and at ease when they see others fail, when they see others arguing and fighting, when they know someone is hurting, when they read something degrading, yet when all of those things happen to them, they are upset and praying for God to make a change in their life. You can not contradict your thoughts and feelings when the shoe is on the other foot. If it is a positive, fruitful and happy life you desire, then it should be a positive, fruitful and happy experience that you feed off of.

     Negativity is like a tick, once it grabs a hold of you, it will suck you dry until you shake it off and destroy it. If you go back to that same area where you picked up that tick, nine times out of ten, you will end up with another one, yet if you take the time and do the research and find another area that is not as infested, your chances of getting a tick will be slim. The same goes for negativity, if you continuously surround yourself and your thoughts in negativity, it will always have the opportunity of grabbing a hold of you and sucking the positive aspects of life out of you. Most people flock to negativity because it is a mask to their own life. Let's say you find yourself sitting in the house when no one is around and you are constantly asking yourself, "why is my life the way it is, why can't I receive my blessing" then let's say you have someone show up at your door, ready to worship with you, yet you pretend not to be home. Five minutes after they leave, a friend shows up with some gossip, a drink or a blunt and you welcome them with open arms. You have your answer my fried, and your prayers have been answered the way you allowed them to. Your life is the way it is because that is what YOU chose for it. You have received your blessing, but it was the blessing YOU chose to receive. Abraham Lincoln once said, "when I do good, I feel good". It is up to you what doing good means in your heart, but when you do what it is you assume to be good, expect to get that same goodness in return. When you find that what you are getting in return is not good, then don't take that as a sign of you not being blessed, take that as a sign that it is time to change what it is that you are doing, to receive what it is that you want.

       I find that I, myself tend to flock to negativity sometimes because I find it to be entertaining, then it begins to consume me and I don't like the feeling I get from that so I instantly change my perspective of entertainment towards something of a more positive nature. I know how it feels when you once lived a life consumed with negativity and you have now changed to a life that consists of more positive than negative. People will begin to call you fake or phony. You cannot let other people's ignorance be the demise of your own character. The one's who feel the need to question your change are the one's who are afraid to embark upon a change of their own. I try not to judge anyone, for we all have a purpose on this earth and we all have our own ways of executing that purpose. Who am I to ridicule or judge the next person just because I don't agree with their execution. For me to do that would be giving negativity the power and losing all prospective of anything positive that individual has to offer. Each and every single one of us are giving the opportunity to pick and choose our own battles in life. Repetition is the most powerful element in human behavior. Not everyone who do good in life will always receive good, nor will those who do bad always receive bad, but when your life consists of a repetition of good, your life will receive a repetition of good, when your life consists of a repetition of bad, your life will receive a repetition of bad. If you find yourself down and feeling like a target of all negative things to come, then it is time to pick and choose a new battle, one that will give you the positive aspects you so seek from life.



I hope this little blog provided you with enough wisdom to change your viewpoint and direction in life away from the negative and more towards the positive. There are so many great things this world and life has to offer us, yet we sit around and complain because we can't see or have not received them, instead getting out there and pursuing them. You will only get out of life, what you give to it. So I can't stress it enough, that if it is POSITIVE things you want, it is POSITIVE things you MUST surround yourself with.......Thanks for coming through and checking me out today....PEACE, LOVE AND BLESSINGS

EXCUSES ARE SUGAR COATED SET BACKS FROM REALITY AND PROSPERITY

Hello Bloggers...How many times have something happened to you or in your life and the first thing you did was make an excuse for it? Excuses make something so wrong seem relatively right, excuses makes our reality shiver to a dream or false hope, excuses hinder us from prospering because we are convinced we are okay right where we are, excuses allow us to be weak instead of facing our situation realistically and head on. I have made a many of excuses in my life and most of them were out of fear or laziness and I will be the first to say that all though they make me feel good at the moment, they don't get me anywhere in the end.

Whatever it is you want or need to do in life you have to look at your self and first of all be real with yourself. Ask yourself what is it I should be doing, what are the things in my life that are hindering me from getting to where I need to be, and what steps do I need to take to get there. If you want to lose weight and you look in the mirror and say to yourself, "I'm not fat, I am just thick"....YOU ARE USING AN EXCUSE...if you need to go back to school and get your high school diploma or GED and you say to your self, "well what's the use the economy is screwed up and people with college degrees can't even get a job" ...YOU ARE USING AN EXCUSE.....If you are in an abusive (mentally, spiritually or physically) relationship and you know you need to get out of it, yet you say to yourself "well I love him/her and when things are good they are great".....YOU ARE USING AN EXCUSE....

To that fat person who believes they are just thick, you might like the way your curves look and the compliments you receive but if deep down in your heart you know that you are fat and need to get rid of it, stop making excuses and do what you have to do because all you are doing is hindering yourself and jeopardizing your health. To that individual that needs to finish high school, the economy may be bad at this point of time but you have to live for today and prepare for the future. Going back to school will open up many more doors for you in the future but if you keep using excuses and doing absolutely nothing, you are going to find yourself in the same predicament 5 to 10 years from now. To that individual who is in that relationship and know the best thing to do would be to move on but can't stop using LOVE as an excuse, LOVE is a two way street and if it were coming and going in both directions, there would be no question as to ending the relationship. Of course there will be problems all relationships have problems but when those problems become the same problems continuously that means that nothing has been learned from the previous confrontation and since nothing is being learned then nothing will ever change so you have to stop using LOVE as an excuse and say to yourself it he/she loved me as much as I love them I wouldn't have to find an excuse because reality would tell me everything will be okay.

The bottom line is there are many things we need to do in life and we all know that life is not an easy road. Some people will make it look like life is all peaches and creams but trust and believe they put in a lot of hard work to get to that point and they didn't have a bunch of excuses along the way. Be real with yourself because at the end of the day you are the only one responsible for the success or failure you have in life. You may face obstacles along the way but again, it is YOU who has to learn how to hurdle over those obstacles and get back on track. When things look easy we are happy but when it is time to get down to the grind and struggle we freeze up and get scared. Many successful people today have been through far more struggles than many of us who are running from a struggle, yet they faced their obstacles, overcame their fears and most importantly THEY STOPPED MAKING EXCUSES and stepped up to the plate and promised themselves a change.

(PPDS) Prioritize, Promise, Deliver and Succeed....The only four words you need in your vocabulary to ensure you are on the right track to an excuse free and promising future. Do not allow the ignorance and comfort of an excuse hold you back from a beautiful, healthy, and rewarding future....You deserve better than that and the sooner you realize it the sooner you will leave the excuse at the but and finish off with an I AM, I CAN AND I WILL.....

Thank you all for listening and I hope I have sprinkled a little bit of inspiration and wisdom in the air and someone will benefit from it because that is my goal....LIVE OUT LOUD, DREAM BIG AND REACH FOR INFINITY....EXCUSES WILL QUIET THE LOUD IN YOUR LIVE, COMPACT YOUR DREAMS AND VISIONS AND IMPAIR YOUR REACH TO A MINUTE UNFINISHED GOAL...IF YOU CAN NOT BE REAL WITH ANYONE ELSE YOU MUST AND I EMPHASIZE MUST BE REAL WITH YOURSELF IN ORDER TO PROSPER IN THIS WORLD...PEACE LOVE AND BLESSINGS

LUSCIOUS HEARTS SEX CHRONICLES PT. 1 *for mature audience ONLY*

Hello family, I have decided to take you on a journey with me to a more sexy and seductive side, alright let's GO!

She enters her bedroom and slip on a little something that is, sexy, seductive and revealing. Then she proceed to fill the jacuzzi with some warm, scented bubbles. The candle lights illuminate the room leaving a dancing sparkle amongst the water. She set the table with a nice, light meal that she previously prepared, cracked open the wine, lit the candles. She props her soft luscious ass up on the table, cross her long, thyck legs, that are glimmering with oil. She smiles as she hear his key enter the door. A trail of rose petals lead a path straight to her. He follows that path, uncross her long, thick, glimmering legs, enter between them and greets her with a long passionate kiss. He cleans up and they prepare to eat. "Dinner was great baby" he wispers in her ear as he continues to kiss and nibble from her ear down to her toes. She place him in the chair and straddle him as she slowly and gently suck on his chest. She can feel his manhood rising and her vagina is dripping wet anticipating him filling her up.

She slowly undresses him, pull him close to the table while he is still seated, she climbs on the table, on her hands and knees she is now ass up and face down, in his lap that is. She gently place his entire shaft into her mouth, making it nice and wet, she place both hands on his penis and stroke it up and down as I am rotating my hands in opposite directions, I proceed to gently then suck on his testicles. She insert his penis in her mouth once again, this time bobbing up and down with a gripping suction, making sure to lick around the base of the head each time she came up. He grips her head and lets out a "damn baby"forcing his manhood deeper into her throat. He says, "slow down baby I don't want to cum yet". He stands up, turn her around so her ass is facing him and he begins to softly lick her from the top of her crack to the tip of her clit.

He lays her on her back and place her ankles next to her ears as he proceeds to licking on her clit. He knows just the right pace, gentleness and just the right spot because her legs begin to shake uncontrollably, her breathing has become deep and sporadic. She grabs his head and begin to thrust her hips, up and down and round and round. "Oooooh yes daddy" she screams in a soft sensual tone as she feels herself about to explode. "oh oh ahhh ah ah ah yeah" she cries in utter ecstasy as her orgasm is being released. Her legs are shaking tremendously as he grabs her by her ass cheeks to keep her from running while he continues to lick on her clit in a fast and vigorous motion. She is screaming, moaning, shaking and fucking his face so hard yet so passionate. He holds her captive until she unleashes three more orgasms. Then her picks her up, slam her against the wall with her legs straddling him, he goes deep, pounding her so hard and so fast until they both scream at the release of ecstasy.

He leaves his slightly erect manhood inside of her pulsating vagina as he carry her to the jacuzzi, in which they refill with warm bubbles and they each enter and begin to kiss and carress on one another. The sound of six inch stilettos appear to be coming down the hall, a tall, thyck, brown skin female enters wearing a trench coat and red stilettos. She drops her coat to reveal her naked size D boobs, neatly shaved vagina, slim waist and round ass. She enters the jacuzzi.....

To be continued in Part 2.....

I hope you enjoyed and appreciate this sexy, seductive side of Luscious Hearts....there will be more to come, thank you for taking a ride with me on my seductive side.....

ATTENTION SEEKERS

When we see the two words attention seekers we automatically have the mindset to assume that these individuals are willing to do bad or degrading things to get attention but not all individuals seek attention by doing "bad" or degrading things. some people seek attention by engaging in more appropriate behavior such as striving for success or recognition. I would like to address both types of attention seekers and possibly explain why these people feel the need to seek attention and appraisal from others.

I would like to begin with the inappropriate behaviors of attention seeking because this is the type of behavior that should be changed into positive or appropriate behavior in an effort to at least rule out any chances of sending the wrong signals and accepting you for who you are and satisfying yourself. Jealousy, lack of self worth, arrogant or overconfident, feelings of neglect due to a lack of attention from parents as a child or being a part of an abusive household as a child and/or being Narcissist ( a personality disorder in which the person falls in love with themselves, has an inflated self worth, feels invulnerable and thinks they are better than most) are all reasons why some of us may strive for attention.

Having any of the characteristics mentioned above could make an individual act inappropriately in order to receive the attention they feel like they may have been robbed of or that may have been lacking as a child. Adults who seek attention are more than likely promiscuous, down for whatever (needing that approval or that chance to prove whatever they feel they need to prove to others), clingy, very emotional and dramatic (the dramatic part describes me to a certain degree), and being violent could play a part in seeking attention or could be due to more elevated situations or circumstances.

One thing we must always remember is that the most important approval and attention we need HAS to come from within ourselves. If we do not feel worthy of ourselves there is no way anyone else will be able to no matter how hard we try. Once you are comfortable in your own skin (and just because you have convinced yourself that you are, that does not necessarily mean that is the case because we are very good at seeing what we want to see and judging ourselves very mildly due to denial) and have faced any and all realities that are or have become a hindrance to you, you will be able to not only accurately judge yourself but you will be able to clearly see that your own approval is all that matters. Being promiscuous and doing inappropriate things will not allow others to gain respect for you. People will see you for who you display yourself as and not who you really are, so if you are okay with others seeing you as promiscuous and an easy lay then you are on the right path but if it is respect you demand then you have to first have respect for yourself.

It is okay to love yourself but not so much that you need to prove to others how much you have to offer especially if others consist of many people. Sometimes breaking away from the scene and becoming absent for a while will draw people to you in a more positive manner. When you are constantly "showing your behind" you have not only made an obstacle and a name for yourself but you have become like a rubik's cube (a little difficult and interesting at first but after a while of the same old stuff, you are now a bore and your behavior has become expected and obvious. Be daring to the point where others are curious and have the urge to know more about you, try not to give them all of you at once just because you feel you need the attention. You don't need their approval or attention as long as you have your own.

The same applies for individuals who seek attention by engaging in constructive behavior. It is great to want to strive for success and to be recognized for your hard work but DO NOT base how well and hard you strive for your own success on the reaction you may or may not receive from others and PLEASE DO NOT do things that will enable you to be recognized in a positive light just to gain the approval and appreciation of others, do what you do because you LOVE to do it and because it is what makes YOU happy. I am still working hard on taking my own advice because I have my own ways of seeking attention and now that I have been honest with myself and accepted the fact that I have these issues, I can now work on me and changing my behavior to reflect the approval, love and attention of my self first and foremost which will enable to clearly see that NEEDING that from others is no where in my dialogue. I hope that I have in some way educated and inspired some of you to be honest with yourself, accept and forgive your past differences and move on in life on a more positive note where YOU are the center and the surrounding audience of all the attention you will ever need and want. Please do not be pessimistic and assume that I am stating that you should not take into consideration the opinions and advice of others because I am not, I am simply saying that others thoughts, opinions and attention should not be the driving force behind what it is that you do.

STATEMENT OF THE DAY:

HUMAN BEINGS ARE SOCIAL CREATURES AND NEED SOCIAL INTERACTION, FEEDBACK, AND VALIDATION OF THEIR WORTH. THE EMOTIONALLY MATURE PERSON DOESN'T NEED TO GO HUNTING FOR THESE; THEY GAIN IT NATURALLY FROM THEIR OWN DAILY LIFE.

PEACE, LOVE AND BLESSINGS. ....

WHY CAN'T ONE BE JUST ENOUGH???

Sometimes I sit and I wonder, "why can't one be just enough". I know we have all been through some times in our lives when we feel we need multiple partners to satisfy our many different needs. We have the one who provides great sex, the one who is a great listener, the one who pay like he/she weighs, the one who gives great fellatio, the one that can cook us a good meal, the one who is the charmer and the romancer and there is always that one that is the fall dummy when the ones we really want are not available, you know, that good for nothing one but it beats a blank one!!!

I see and hear so many men, women, boys, girls talking about sex and head all the time. Wouldn't it be nice to get all you need from just that one special person? Some of you are probably reading this saying, "yeah right, that will never happen" but it can, it has and it will. Finding that special all around individual is like buying a house, you may get the big yard, big bedrooms, updated appliances but there will only be one bathroom that is very tiny. You find everything you want in that individual/home yet there will always be that one thing that is wrong. So you ask yourself what can I do to fix this, and you know that you will shed blood, sweat and tears to get that home right but little effort goes into getting that individual right. We all too often listen to that saying that goes, "you can't change a person" and maybe you can't but you can damn sure help them change themselves.

Work on that individual, put in the time, be patient. If they have all that you are looking for and just need some minor improvements it is more beneficial to work with them versus going out and getting a boyfriend/girlfriend #2,3,4. Trust and believe boyfriend/girlfriend #2,3,4 will have a boyfriend/girlfriend 5,6 and 7. That is just too much juice swapping for me, all because we can't find the time to work with the 1 we have. Compliment your partner, communicate with them, keep the fighting and arguing to a minimum or almost non existent, please them to the best of your ability and always remind them how important they are in your life.

I am not saying this will definitely ensure that your partner will not stray because there are some people who just can't phantom the thought of being with just one person so you can jump over the moon and back and they are still going to do them (if and when you run across this type of individual, run as fast as you can, no matter how hard you try, there is no fixing that type of individual) but being all that you can be in a relationship with just 1 person will increase your chances of longevity and a happy, healthy, disease free living. If your man/woman tells you they need more of you, they are not being selfish or clingy, they are letting you know that there is someone else out there ready, able and willing to provide it if you won't so that is one way we can ensure 1 will be enough by listening to our partners, putting our pride to the side and fulfilling their every need.

I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST OF LUCK IN LOVE AND LIFE AND REMEMBER DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WANT THEM TO DO UNTO YOU, SO IF YOUR PRIDE IS TO THE SKY AND YOU FEEL AS THOUGH YOU DON'T HAVE TO HUMBLE YOURSELF SOMETIMES, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE TREATED AS SUCH

Where There is a Good Man, There Will be a Good Woman

All too often we ask ourselves, "Why can't I find a GOOD man/woman". Well if we search deep within ourselves we will find that answer. I can tell you two very possible answers right up front and number one would be: You once had a good man/woman and did not know how to treat them because you were not sure what you wanted and/or what you had, number two: that good man/woman you are looking for is staring you right in your face but you may be too stuck on the "uh uh can't be" to even notice it.

Sometimes we have to step out of the box and go beyond our means and our comfort zone to get what it is we are really looking for in a man/woman. To a woman, men were always our heroes and our warriors. They were the providers, the protectors, the lover and the listener. Some where along the way most men forgot how to be those things. They felt a sense of "I am doing too much". Somewhere along the way men decided that a woman was not worth providing for, protecting or even listening to so man begin to treat woman like a disposable napkin and using her to satisfy his needs and tossing her in the waste basket when he picked up a new one. Some men didn't even toss the old one to get a new one, they would just have many of them at once. Somewhere along the way men stopped caring about the affect they were having on woman and when the woman realized what was going on, somewhere along the way women stopped looking to men to be their hero and their warrior. They were taught how to treat men like a disposable napkin and use him up and toss him to the side to get a new one. Women forgot the value of their worth and therefore they are unable to give their all to their man. I don't mean to sound biased but I am speaking from a woman's perspective and I know that not all men forgot how to treat a woman because those who did not forget, probably have a GOOD woman on their arm at this moment.

Ladies and Gentlemen take a moment and remember your worth, remember how to respect one another, remember how to love one another, remember how to communicate with one another. Treat your body like a prized possession and not just a prize waiting to be claimed by the next lucky winner. Once we remember how to treat, love and communicate again, we should have no problems finding a GOOD man/woman because they will give you the same respect you give them. MOST IMPORTANTLY LOVE YOURSELF FIRST BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T, THERE IS NO WAY ANYONE ELSE WILL BE ABLE TO BECAUSE YOU WON'T NO HOW TO ACCEPT IT....*PEACE, LOVE AND BLESSINGS*